http://our12steps.com "I Can't But We Can" Sat, 04 Feb 2012 00:23:30 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 http://our12steps.com/4th-step-inventory-guide/#comment-385 How not to blame the victim? | Wheat and Tares Sat, 04 Feb 2012 00:23:30 +0000 http://our12steps.com/?page_id=27#comment-385 [...] Now if you’ve read Leadership and Self-Deception: Getting out of the Box by Arbinger Institute or The Anatomy of Peace: Resolving the Heart of Conflict the idea of resentments being a guide to where you have gone wrong is not new to you. It turns out many, many groups use resentments as a way to guide people to finding their own faults. [...] [...] Now if you’ve read Leadership and Self-Deception: Getting out of the Box by Arbinger Institute or The Anatomy of Peace: Resolving the Heart of Conflict the idea of resentments being a guide to where you have gone wrong is not new to you. It turns out many, many groups use resentments as a way to guide people to finding their own faults. [...]

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